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You don’t owe prettiness to anyone. Not to your boyfriend/spouse/partner, not to your co-workers, especially not to random men on the street. You don’t owe it to your mother, you don’t owe it to your children, you don’t owe it to civilization in general. Prettiness is not a rent you pay for occupying a space marked “female”.
Erin McKean, You Don’t Have to Be Pretty (via larmoyante)
Love never dies a natural death. It dies because we don’t know how to replenish its source. It dies of blindness and errors and betrayals. It dies of illness and wounds; it dies of weariness, of witherings, of tarnishings.
Anaïs Nin (via larmoyante)
You cannot live when you are untouchable. Life is vulnerability.
Édouard Boubat, Notebooks, 1958
From Édouard Boubat: A Gentle Eye (via liquidnight)
volcanize:

This Explains Everything

I’m really proud of this one guys

♥❤♥

volcanize:

This Explains Everything

I’m really proud of this one guys

♥❤♥

I opened my mouth, almost said something. Almost. The rest of my life might have turned out differently if I had. But I didn’t.
Khaled Hosseini, The Kite Runner (via larmoyante)

Let me tell you a story. The day after Columbine, I was interviewed for the Tom Brokaw news program. The reporter had been assigned a theory and was seeking soundbites to support it. “Wouldn’t you say,” she asked, ‘that killings like this are influenced by violent movies?” No, I said, I wouldn’t say that. “But what about ‘The Basketball Diaries’?” she asked. “Doesn’t that have a scene of a boy walking into a school with a machinegun?”

The obscure 1995 Leonardo DiCaprio movie did indeed have a brief fantasy scene of that nature, I said, but the movie failed at the box office and it’s unlikely the Columbine killers saw it.

The reporter looked disappointed, so I offered her my theory. “Events like this,” I said, “if they are influenced by anything, are influenced by news programs like your own. When an unbalanced kid walks into a school and starts shooting, it becomes a major media event. Cable news drops ordinary programming and goes around the clock with it. The story is assigned a logo and a theme song; these two kids were packaged as the Trench Coat Mafia. The message is clear to other disturbed kids: If I shoot up my school, I can be famous. The TV will talk about nothing else but me. Experts will try to figure out what I was thinking. Kids and teachers at school will see they shouldn’t have messed with me. I’ll go out in a blaze of glory.”

In short, I said, events like Columbine are influenced far less by violent movies than by CNN, “The NBC Nightly News” and other news media, who glorify the killers in the guise of “explaining” them.

The reporter thanked me and turned off the camera. Of course the interview was never used. They found plenty of talking heads to condemn violent movies, and everybody was happy.

A Roger Ebert quote that sticks out in my mind

From his review of Gus Van Sant’s Elephant

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karethdreams:

The Wage Gap: A Handy Visual Guide

And thus the heart will break, yet brokenly live on.
Lord Byron, Childe Harold’s Pilgrimage (via larmoyante)

So very true♥

I’ve reached the age where bruises are formed from failures within rather than accidents without.
Nicole Krauss, Great House (via larmoyante)

Contemplation…

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TRIGGER WARNING: Sexual assault, rape.

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